We are blessed with a 9/80 work schedule which means we work 9 hour days and get every other Friday off. What did we do on our first off Friday...MOVE!! It might seem like moving is one of my favorite things to do since we do it a lot, this was my twelfth move in 7 years but I hate it just as much as everyone else. The move was rather painless, in a last minute panic I hired two guys to help and three small hours we were in our new apartment.
This was the second time in two years that our life was in storage so unpacking is kind of like Christmas. I got my electric toothbrush back, found my stash of chapstick and had a whole new wardrobe including a huge box of shoes! At first it was very exciting but when it comes to picking what to wear I find that it was much easier when I only had two options, holy tank top one or holy tank top two.
We have about half of everything unpacked and don't plan on unpacking the rest. Our friend Greg thinks that we'll be completely unpacked in 6 months and he's probably right. As of now I just unpacked minimal things: 4 plates, a set of bowls, a few cups and wine glasses but as I cook and bake more I think I'll be looking for things that are still packed. The dining room will be our storage area until we sort out our lives.
We were action packed the rest of the weekend. Attended a birthday party for a friends kid, went to a beach bonfire to watch the summer fireworks, went to dinner with Andrew and Alicia, and went food shopping!!! YEAH for no more eating out!!!
Pics: not in order as usual
- The 70s called and asked if we want to visit ... we said YES! Dark paneling, no dishwasher and a fire place all ours for the next 6 months
- the great thing about your friends having kids is that you get to play with them. Siena is the daughter of our San Diego besties Greg and Marisa
- Andrew and Alicia ready for a night out. Our dinners together are numbered, he got stationed on the east coast :(
- Happiness is finding your bag of Chapstick!!!
- Where else in the world can you watch fireworks while having a bonfire on the beach and be wearing pants in June!
- Locating all the pieces of my electric toothbrush is like riding a unicorn through a chocolate filled lake
- Michael might look like he's taking a break but he was actually doing sit ups
Showing posts with label California. Show all posts
Showing posts with label California. Show all posts
Thursday, June 21, 2012
Monday, June 11, 2012
What happens when you return
We read numerous travel blogs before we left and most people posted some sort of self reflection after their trip and/or a cost summary but what no one talked about is what happened in their lives when they returned. Did they sleep on moms couch for weeks while looking for a job, did they have a home to return to, a job? So since today is our first day back at work I figured I'd tell you how it worked for us. We arrived in California last week picked up our car that was parked at a friends place and then headed over to another friend who was gracious enough to let us stay with her for a few days. Our whole life is in a 10x10 storage unit and luckily we had a small bag of clothes and toiletries in the trunk of the car that we needed right before we left. I already felt one up from when I returned from deployment since we didn't have a car then and I came back a month before Michael and I didn't want to look for apartments without him which meant I was homeless for a while.
Got settled at our friends and feverishly went about looking for a place to live. We needed a month to month or 6 month lease available now since we still had no idea where we were moving. There are plenty on the market but they are small complexes without a full time office staff which means generally we call a number who tells us if it's available then they said they will call an on site manager who will call us. From what we observed this on site person is just someone who lives in the complex and has authority to show places but it's not their job so it's not a priority, which means its days before they return your calls. After three days of searching we finally see a bunch of places and then the applications process starts. As a renter the process is painful but as an owner I'm glad they are thorough. Pays stubs (that was tricky for us), bank statements, debt and references. I don't know how people who live paycheck to paycheck ever get approved. Our current hold up is a reference. In the last three years we've only paid rent at a complex for 6 months, the rest of the time we were out of the country or living in our condo. The other issue is that every place requires a credit check and a fee so we don't want to apply to a bunch of places.
In the meantime we have to return to work which started today. It's like everything that's been on hold for months is coming at us at once. We are full speed ahead at two jobs (military and civilian), looking for a place to live, planning a move. So on this fine Monday, 6 days after returning to San Diego we are staying at a hotel, hoping to get an apartment and move this weekend, we have just enough work enough appropriate clothes to make it through the week. It's like we're still traveling as we eat take out or pre-made meals and I had to sit on the floor to make our lunches this morning. I can't wait for the day that I can put in earrings, wear perfume, use my electric toothbrush and cook my own dinner.
Got settled at our friends and feverishly went about looking for a place to live. We needed a month to month or 6 month lease available now since we still had no idea where we were moving. There are plenty on the market but they are small complexes without a full time office staff which means generally we call a number who tells us if it's available then they said they will call an on site manager who will call us. From what we observed this on site person is just someone who lives in the complex and has authority to show places but it's not their job so it's not a priority, which means its days before they return your calls. After three days of searching we finally see a bunch of places and then the applications process starts. As a renter the process is painful but as an owner I'm glad they are thorough. Pays stubs (that was tricky for us), bank statements, debt and references. I don't know how people who live paycheck to paycheck ever get approved. Our current hold up is a reference. In the last three years we've only paid rent at a complex for 6 months, the rest of the time we were out of the country or living in our condo. The other issue is that every place requires a credit check and a fee so we don't want to apply to a bunch of places.
In the meantime we have to return to work which started today. It's like everything that's been on hold for months is coming at us at once. We are full speed ahead at two jobs (military and civilian), looking for a place to live, planning a move. So on this fine Monday, 6 days after returning to San Diego we are staying at a hotel, hoping to get an apartment and move this weekend, we have just enough work enough appropriate clothes to make it through the week. It's like we're still traveling as we eat take out or pre-made meals and I had to sit on the floor to make our lunches this morning. I can't wait for the day that I can put in earrings, wear perfume, use my electric toothbrush and cook my own dinner.
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